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Love, Growth & Relationships
For the love we couldn’t hold, and the one we’re becoming ready for. This category unpacks how avoidant attachment impacts connection—and how growth makes space for new, healthier love.


What I’m Learning to Do: A Healing Avoidant’s Next Chapter
The follow-up to “10 Things I Hate About Me” There was a time when all I knew how to do was run. From love, from pain, from myself. And...
Healing Avoidant
7 hours ago3 min read
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For the Love That Deserved Better: I’m Becoming Ready Now
A Healing Avoidant Reflection There’s a kind of love that leaves a mark — not because it stayed, but because it showed you everything you...
Healing Avoidant
May 163 min read
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"I'm a Proud Avoidant" — The Words That Should Never Be a Badge of Honor
Someone shared a piece of her story with me. Her avoidant told her, with no hesitation, no irony, and no shame: "I'm a proud avoidant."...
Healing Avoidant
May 142 min read
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Loving Like You've Never Been Hurt: How One Book Helped Me Face My Avoidant Heart
If you had asked me a few years ago, heck even 6 months ago, what love looked like, I would have given you a surface-level answer. Smile...
Healing Avoidant
Apr 283 min read
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The Word Was "Compromise"
Early in my healing journey, starting therapy, and renewing my faith in Jesus, this is a story, a letter, a journal entry I wrote. The...
Healing Avoidant
Apr 223 min read
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Healing Didn’t Happen Overnight—But God Never Left My Side
This story isn’t just about pain—it’s about purpose. About how God used physical discipline to prepare my heart for spiritual...
Healing Avoidant
Apr 114 min read
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